Coping with Stress
Friday, May 30th, 2008
In your busy, often stressful life, filled with deadlines and meetings, it’s hard to find time to get to the gym every day. I also know that you know, daily exercise will make you feel better, plus reduce stress. But are you aware of how much it helps? Aerobic exercise can reduce anxiety by up to 50%. Imagine half the stress gone, just because you took a morning run. While a workout is not a panacea for all your daily woes, it is a great coping mechanism. Here are a few of the many reasons exercise is great for lowering your stress level.Exercise improves your mood. Aerobic exercise increases blood flow to the brain and produces chemicals that make you feel happier. The better you feel about life, the less stress will weigh you down.
Exercise increases energy. Exercising in the morning, gives you a great energy boost that’ll keep you going until the afternoon. You may feel fatigued during the first few weeks, but be persistent and the energy will come. Exercise gives you time to think. A lot of the stress we face, we cause. Instead of doing work and fixing problems, we worry about doing work and fixing problems. Exercise gives you time alone to focus without distractions.Have you ever noticed that you tend to get sick more often when you’re stressed? Scientists have noticed this connection for a long time, but until recently, couldn’t explain it. While a big project at work or family problems aren’t going to give you the flu, they can decrease the functioning of your immune system, making you more susceptible to the flu and other infections.
When we think the stressor is beyond our control and will never end, our body feels it can’t cope; that’s when stress begins to take its toll. Even if you feel you are in a position of control, (high power job) long-term stress can build up and gradually decrease your disease fighting abilities.
Did you know that practicing focused breathing exercises can help you relax and relieve tension? First step, find a good position. You can lie on your stomach, back, sit cross-legged, sit on your feet with your knees facing forward, or stand. Choose the one most comfortable for your body type. If you’re not comfortable, you’re not going to relax no matter how you breathe. Also try periodically changing positions throughout your breathing exercises. Next, use the proper breathing technique.
We tend to take short shallow breaths. Focused breathing exercises involve taking longer, deeper, fuller breaths. This changes the percentage of carbon dioxide in your system, putting you in a more relaxed state. Breathe by pulling your stomach in and out (toward and away from your spine). Keep your shoulders relaxed; if they’re moving up and down, your breathing is too shallow.
Breathe slowly. About 5 to 6 seconds for each inhalation and exhalation; however, it’s more important to focus on your technique rather than your pace. Inhale deeply through your nose, and exhale though your mouth. Focus on the breathing. The point of breathing exercises is to clear your mind of stress, not give you an opportunity to focus on it. If your thoughts wander, try to bring your mind back to the breathing. With more experience, you’ll find this easier to do.
Practice visualization exercises while you’re breathing. Picture each muscle in your body and focus on it feeling relaxed. Deep breathing is a great way to get to sleep or simply unwind at the end of a long day. Take Care and Be Well.
Most discussion and modalities concerning weight loss are generally centered around women. When we begin to discuss health risks there’s still a gender imbalance. Allow me to throw in a little balance adjustment and talk about some risks for men. SmokingThe most avoidable risk, simply don’t start. Most men begin smoking at an early age and mostly because they see others doing it. Some think its cool, giving them a “bad boy” image they think girls like. Unless they receive bad news from their doctor, are prodded by a loved one, or reality hits; they’ll remain smokers.
Have you ever had a food high? Do you recall a time when you were eating something that was just so good you couldn’t stop even though you were way past full? The need to feed just wouldn’t go away. Food was so instantly gratifying you wanted the feeling to go on and on, so you continued to eat. Most overweight people have felt that loss of control. When you were finally lulled, back into reality what did you feel? Probably guilt and lots of it.Once again, you allowed yourself to go overboard; you relinquished your control and self-esteem to the goddess of goodies. We all have the ability to pull ourselves out of the food basket, we just don’t know it. In some cases, we don’t want to. We don’t want to because living in the food basket is comfortable, we know what to expect there. Even though we know the detriments of living there, of setting ourselves up for debilitating health conditions, we remain, hoping that the miracles of modern technology will provide us with a quick and easy way out. That is precisely where the $30 billion a year weight loss industry wants us to stay. Overweight and in search of a quick fix.Put it into context, say it aloud, ask this question as many times as you need to: DOES THE FOOD YOU OVEREAT TASTE THAT GOOD?? Does it taste better than feeling good, physically and emotionally? Some of us don’t have anything else to compare it to, because we’ve lived in the food basket all of our lives. Could it be that we are hiding inside the basket? We don’t know what it’s like to be healthy, we don’t know what will happen to use or we’re afraid of what might be expected of us should we be successful in our weight loss and fitness goals. There’s a part of us that is afraid to reach our goals and this doesn’t just apply to weight loss. How much better are we expected to perform in all areas of life if we succeed? That is part of the reason we sabotage our success. Take ownership of your fitness.
I’ve just about had it with weight loss commercials. Especially the ones that feature celebrities. Granted a few of them do use the products (at least I think they do). Valerie Bertinelli for instance, she looks great. She called Jenny, did what she had to do and made progress. On the other hand there’s Kirstie Alley. Jenny obviously didn’t answer when she called or girlfriend called the wrong number. Then she had the nerve to say she was starting her own weight loss line. Line of what, deep fried chocolate cake?
I’ve gotta fess up, I’m hooked on Dancing With the Stars. With every samba, quick step and jive I imagine me out there gliding across the floor. Can you imagine the workout those routines give you? Unless you’re seriously chowing down in your trailer during rest periods, how can you not drop some pounds? Then there’s the skimpy costumes. Most leave little to the imagination and you do want them to fit. Sashaying with a too tight waistband will cut your breath off and leave you at the mercy of crotchety old Len.The celebrities and the pros put in some serious time for our votes and the all mighty mirror ball trophy, a svelte body should be a given. You may not be ready to don the spandex and sprinkles, but you can still get your groove on and burn the fat.Dancing is great for breaking up the monotony; and there’s no need to worry about the judges scoring you on your technique. There’s nothing that gets your heart pumping like dancing and you don’t have to be good; you just have to move. Studies have shown that ballroom dancing is almost as effective at working your heart as running. And don’t get hung on all ballroom, it also doesn’t matter what kind of dancing you’re doing, the simple act of moving your arms and legs around is enough to get a great cardio workout.
I know I’m about to piss off some people but here goes anyway. Why is it that women will pencil into their budgets regular hair and nail appointments but balk at the idea of paying for a person trainer? Oh they will pay, but not what the going rate is. Now you may be inclined to think that the going rate is unreasonable, but who’s to say. Trainers charge by the hour, hair stylists and nail techs charge by the job. I guess it all depends on your priorities. And I’m certainly not bashing hair stylists and nail techs. My daughter is a stylist in Dallas and I want her to have all the business that she can handle. My point is that there should be balance (there’s that word again).Pampering is a good thing and I think everyone should do it, in whatever form pleases you and that you can afford. Pampering doesn’t always have to mean the girly kind of stuff either. It can be a walk in the park, reading your favorite book, music, meditation or just watching the game uninterrupted. Me time is preventive medicine. Too often we get caught up in the hurry up and do everything at one time game and forget or neglect to take care of ourselves. Forgive me, I digress.What good is a slammin hairdo if you can’t climb a flight of stairs without huffin and puffin? And those perfectly manicured nails will look really great while you’re clutching your chest because of the pains you’re having. Balance and self care, that’s all I’m saying.