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Friday, June 13th, 2008

2101320kids_mom_exercise.jpgWe know the benefits of fitness for us, but how often do we consider the benefits of exercise for our children? It isn’t necessary to have a formal workout routine for them (unless that fits your family structure). What’s important is that they spend less time with the Playstation and get moving. Here are some stats from the CDC. Daily participation in school physical education among adolescents dropped 14 percentage points over the last 13 years — from 42% in 1991 to 28% in 2003.

In addition, less than one-third (28%) of high school students meet currently recommended levels of physical activity. The most important lessons children learn, begin at home.In our busy hectic lives, it can be hard to work in playtime with our children. To properly grow and learn, children need to be active. We can help by playing with them. Here are some ideas and benefits:

  • Encourage healthy physical activities. If they want to play a game, suggest hide and seek, tag, or anything else that will get them up and moving. Play also helps to support physical development. If a child sits in front of a T.V. all day, they’ll never develop their hand eye coordination, balance, or other physical abilities to their full potential.
  • Bonding. There is nothing more important in building a child’s self-esteem and feeling of safety than bonding with a parent. If a child knows that their parent is there for them, they’ll grow up to feel more secure. You may think it’s just talking and spending time with your child, but to them it’s about feeling love and protection.
  • Get Personal. Often, a child will reenact situations that he or she finds important. They may use playtime to vent emotional frustrations that they are unable to describe verbally. By paying attention to your child’s behavior during play, you can determine their concerns and frustrations. Playing with your child is beneficial to you as well. It helps you to:
  • Get to know your children. Many parents of teenagers say that they know little if anything about their kids. A good way to know them is to start while they’re still young. Regular play now may actually help you worry less about them when they’re older.
  • Relax. When children play, they create imaginary worlds and situations. If you are actively involved in your child’s imaginary worlds, it can help you forget the stress of the real world.
  • Stay active. We all know how hard it is to stay active when there are deadlines to meet, bills to pay, and everything else to do. Play with your kids and increase your exercise.

Playing with your child shouldn‘t be a chore. It may be difficult to rearrange your schedule, but it will be worth it.

Let’s Get Real

Friday, June 6th, 2008

Some people procrastinate, as a way of life, tomorrow never gets here when it comes to making changes. So here’s the $20 million question, what are YOU waiting for? While it is true that proper mindset is crucial in making changes, it is also true that there is no magical date or time when it’s going to show up. This is true in regards to fitness more than any other area. There’s no denying that a vast majority of us are in denial. We have a thousand and one excuses for not getting started and even more for quitting. Different things spur individuals into action, whether it’s a less than favorable report from the doctor, or that dreaded three-way mirror in the fitting room.

Here are 7 Signs that it’s Time to Start a Fitness Program

When you climb a flight of stairs, do you stop at the top, bend over with your hands on your thighs, totally winded? Can you sing the ABC song without gasping for breath?When you sit down is your lower abdomen resting on your thighs?

When you push away from the table, does it move with you?

When waving goodbye, does the underside of your upper arm continue to wave after you stop?

When you step on the scales, do you remove all the change from your pockets and take off all your jewelry?

Have you ever put off a health exam for fear of the dreaded weigh-in?

Have you said more than once that you are big-boned, or that hips, thighs and butt run in your family?

Getting Started

OK, now that you are ready to spring into action, I want you to be honest about what you can and can’t accomplish. Don’t set out to run a marathon the first time out. Crawl before you walk, slow and steady wins the race; all the clichés are relevant here. If you have never exercised before, start with 10 minutes of your chosen activity. Why such a short time? You won’t hurt yourself, you won’t feel disheartened by not finishing a lengthy session, and you can only go up from there. On the other hand, go for at least 20-minute sessions the first week if you’ve been sidetracked and are getting back into the groove.Getting RealAlong with motivation and optimism there needs to be a healthy dose of reality with your fitness plans and goals. Have you seen the weight loss commercial where the newly thin woman announces that she is a size 2? Yippee for her if that actually happened, and if that’s was her target. In the real world that doesn’t happen often. If you’ve never worn a size 2, and wear higher than a 14-16 now, chances are that’s not going to be your outcome. I don’t say this to discourage you from reaching your goals; I say it so that you won’t be discouraged and give up, when the fantasy physique doesn’t appear.

Common MistakesGuys, I will admit that we women stake claim to this more than you do. Comparing yourself to what you see as the ideal woman whether she is Tyra Banks or Carmen Electra is setting yourself up for failure. All the aerobics and resistance training in the world will not change bone structure or give you longer legs. Quit comparing yourself to celebrities and work on becoming a healthier and slimmer you. Our other faux pas is overtraining specific body parts. There is no such thing as spot reducing. Train your entire body to achieve balance and avoid injury. While it is possible to hone in on certain muscles like your abs, there’s no need to do endless crunches. It’s better to do fewer with correct form. Also, keep in mind that you need to burn the layer of fat that is covering the muscles you are working.

Give in but Don’t Give UpThere will come a time whether you’re a newbie or a veteran that you just can’t/won’t/don’t have the energy or inclination to work out. It’s OK to sit one out, just don’t let one missed workout start a chain. When you’re sitting one out, pay particular attention to your dietary intake that day. Don‘t go overboard with the “I‘m taking a day off” theory.

My mom would always tell me nothing beats a failure but a try. If trying is the best you can do to work towards your fitness goals, then try try again. Eventually it will stick. Take Care and Be Well.

Thursday, June 5th, 2008

PaulPaladin060900041books.jpgHow’d the first set of common sense rules sit with you? Hey don’t shoot the messenger, I’m just trying to help. Following these practical tips can save you time, money and frustration. Tally ho!

  1. Tune in to Eat Less. Music soothes the savage beast and it can set the mood for overindulgence. Mid-tempo music keeps you at an even keel. Slower, mellow music relaxes you your resolve, leading you to think one more bite or drink won’t hurt.
  2. Throw Them Out. Not your relatives, your fat clothes. Don’t leave them in the closet or drawer as a reminder. Having an alternate wardrobe waiting in the event you regain the loss weight is not a good motivator.
  3. Get Over Yourself. Optimal health and fitness is serious business, but the rest of the world is still going on. While you are in the process get your mind off yourself and do something for someone else. Plant a tree, read to preschoolers or just smile and passersby.
  4. Be Grateful. Appreciation for what you have, however miniscule you think it may be goes a long way. You may not be happy with your present weight and current level of fitness but you’re alive and can do something about it.
  5. What Did You Say? Thunder thighs, bubble butt. Lose the negative terms of endearment. Stop reinforcing what you don’t like and praise what you do. Yes, your eyes are very pretty.
  6. Step Off. Quit weighing yourself 2-3 times a day. Once a week, same day and same time will do. To often the numbers on the scale set the tone of our day. Keep in mind that most scales read in pounds and that ¼ - ½ pound you lost won’t show. Also the muscle you are gaining might register as weight gain.
  7. Flavor Flav. When it comes to healthy eating this is where it’s at. What’s in your spice cabinet? Salt, pepper and that bottle of Worcestershire sauce that you aren’t doing anything with. Experiment with different sauces and spices to add variety and keep the meals interesting.

Common Sense Wellness

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

PaulPaladin060900041books.jpgMost of weight loss and fitness is just plain ol common sense which some seem to be lacking. I have 14 basic common sense steps you can take to take the pressure off and enjoy your life in the meantime. Here’s the first 7 and the second set will come tomorrow.

  1. Increase the amount of fruits and veggies you eat. Fruits and veggies are the powerhouses of weight loss and management. Aside from the nutritional benefits the more fibrous ones work to keep your metabolic rate stoked.
  2. Water. No, it cannot and will not flush fat from your body. It helps to keep the body running smoothly. Especially the kidneys whose function is to filter and remove toxins from the body.
  3. Move it Mr/Sister. Whether it’s intentional or incidental exercise , to get the healthy and fit your body needs to be in motion. Sweat is your friend.


  • Stop saying No. To your favorite foods. Eat the things you’ve put on the forbidden list, just have them moderately. Anything that’s deemed as forbidden becomes more enticing.
  • Talk About it. A support system will help to keep you on track. Whether it’s a family member, friend or online buddy. You don’t have to got it alone, there is strength in numbers.
  • Relax. As important as activity is so is downtime. Do what soothes your soul, even if t’s just sitting down and watching your favorite tabloid tv show.
  • Soak it in. Be like a sponge and absorb as much information as you can about weight loss and fitness. The internet is open 24/7 and has more data than you’ll ever read. Dust off your library card and check out a few books; sometimes it’s nice to hold a real book in your hand and because it’s portable you can take it to places that the internet can’t go.
  • Monday Monday

    Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

    NikeJustDoItSwoosh.jpgMonday, Monday the start day of most diets. Yes, I used the “D” word. Most people start a diet on a Monday. Is that supposed to be the official fresh new beginning day? It seems to me that if you’re really serious about healthy eating and losing weight you’d, a) not start a diet because you’ll probably stop it eventually and b) start now. Now there are some exceptions to point b. If it’s a day or two before Thanksgiving or Christmas you might as well wait, unless you’ve got resolves of steel. Or, if you’ve just checked into your cabin on a 7-day cruise you’ll feel like jumping overboard if you don’t partake in some of the goodies.This is the real world and timing is everything. I’m not advocating that you go into a feeding frenzy during vacations and holidays or event your own holidays to prolong your plans. Just be realistic and know your limitations. You know the old saying about cutting off your nose to spite your face? Once that healthy eating plan is well in place there will still be tempting times and occasions when you’ll backslide. Find the balance, indulge moderately and don’t like the backslide expand your backside. Take care and be well.

    Holistic Fitness: Your Body and You(Part II)

    Tuesday, August 21st, 2007

    Yesterday my guest blogger Marcia described what Awareness is. Today she discusses Joy and Choices-things we should know about before we get into holistic fitness.

    JOY:

    The entire process of building a healthy body goes from something impersonal to something very personal and meaningful to each of us as individuals. This process brings us closer to the spiritual aspect of how our body works. Let’s face it. We all have arms and legs, we all have thoughts and emotions; but something deeper within us drives us to do things that others wouldn’t even consider. This deep sense of individuality is our connection to the spiritual aspects of the self. When the physical body, mental body, emotional body and spiritual self are all in harmony, the chances for success are phenomenal.

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    The traditional fitness triangle of body-mind-emotion, now has a unifying aspect-the spirit that drives the individual to seek fulfillment, satisfaction and joy. Being “well” in the physical body isn’t enough for most of us. We need a deeper more personal motivation, to make the effort to find a fitness program and stick to it.

    Traditional fitness is a program of regular exercise, “proper” diet/nutrition, and “proper” rest to allow for physical recovery. A traditional fitness program is built around attaining agility, balance, body composition, cardiovascular endurance, coordination, flexibility and joint range of motion, muscular strength and endurance and speed.

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    Right Now

    Sunday, July 29th, 2007

    Nowadays if you want motivation you can find it everywhere- in shops, greeting cards, the internet other than all the support you get from your friends and family and nature.

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    While I was scanning the blogosphere I came across a link that Lady Rose had posted and I wanted to share it with you. It’s a great destress motivator and makes you stop and think about how simple life can be if you can focus on the Right Now.

    I’m always thinking of what tomorrow can bring and what happiness/unhappiness might show up in my life. If I just focus on writing my blog as I am doing it right now, I’ll be happier

    No stress means more health….so check out the daily motivator and get inspired!:)

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    Changing my life

    Thursday, July 5th, 2007

    I’m seriously considering to put my babies in play school for a brief hour so that I can start on yoga.

    Writing this blog has made me more health conscious and I’ve been dying to learn yoga for years. I do the odd meditation but I want to be flexible like my kids.

    Research shows that children prove to be obstacles to your physical fitness. While running around your kids can make you tired, it is not necessarily as good as working out. So if you were a good athlete once upon a time, you may find a lot of things stop you from going to the gym when your children are growing up. You could be guilty of spending time on yourself.You will suffer as a result.

    I feel it right now. Something called age come nagging at me as the kids climb the chairs and the tables and the sofa. I don’t usual get all personal in my blog. But I’m dead beat right now. Pooped. Wiped out.

    So I want to do something about it! Change my life. Learn something new.And share it with you on my blog. Hope it works out.Wish me luck!

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    Can You Take A Compliment?

    Saturday, May 26th, 2007

    In her Color Me Fit blog Kery talks about how it feels when someone comes up to you and says “You’re so pretty”.

    The sad part is that my first thought was to wonder if he was mocking me.

    Now I don’t personally subscribe to anyone commenting on how I look. But once my friend did the exact same thing. While I was in college, a friend of mine talked about how she went up to a boy and complimented him on his looks. He looked back at her insulted as though she had said,”You like like dog shit.”

    She never saw him again.

    Sometimes we can underestimate ourselves so much that we can’t even take a pat on the back without suspicion. Maybe there are days when we look really good, regardless of our size. I’ll say embrace those days and understand a compliment when you get one.

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    Being In Control Of Your life-Part 1

    Monday, May 21st, 2007

    Part of leading a healthy lifestyle has to do with being in control of your life. When you are not, you tend to see things falling apart.

    thk.jpgOne way to be in contol of your life is to quit your addictions. Easier said than done. Meera has written a great post about how she quit smoking for good. She tackled her problem using logic. When you smoke you spend an hour or two on your cigarrettes. That realization changed her approach.

    Sometimes having kids is an opportunity to change. If you assume responsibility as a parent then quitting habits like drinking could help. Living with parents on a high could cause stress in children and lead them to pursue binge-drining habits or experience mental trauma later on. Read this.

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    Four Ways to Beat Burnout

    Friday, May 18th, 2007

    Yesterday I talked about what burnout is really all about. Sometimes it could be the multitasking you do, sometimes it could be the kind of relationships you are in, other times the kind of compensation you get for the time and energy you invest in your work. All these things can contribute to the level of stress in your life and the happiness quotient you experience.

    I would advice any stressed out person to read this excellent article Set Limits at Work to Beat Burnout.

    Four ways to beat burnout:

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    How do You Deal with Rock Bottom Days?

    Tuesday, May 15th, 2007

    I came across JM’s new blog and she used a phrase “I think I’m reaching rock bottom…” and I started thinking about all my rock bottom days and for me hitting that low means not moving out of my chair and getting the routine things done. It means just sitting and doing nothing. If some unfortunate soul comes before me, I could lose my temper and be unreasonable.

    You know you’ve hit rock bottom when you read this.

    How can you deal with those rock bottom days?

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    Who’s in Charge?

    Monday, May 7th, 2007

    chess.jpgIf you think you are the boss when it comes to your health, then chances are you will work harder on keeping yourself fit. Statistics reveal that less and less people are taking health into their hands and are pessimistic about any durable change that they can produce. Read this story.

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    ‘Elephant’ Syndrome

    Saturday, May 5th, 2007

    What goes on in the mind of a fat child? Check out this post on Angry Fat Girlz.

    As parents we can teach our kids some things:

    -Go easy on criticism-criticizing others(think about the names kids call their fatter or skinnier counterparts) and taking it. It isn’t easy not to take yourself seriously but once you learn to laugh at your defects life becomes easier. A lot of young kids who are anorexic or have weight problems have a problem with criticism.

    Some parenting tips:

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    Exercise your Brain

    Thursday, March 22nd, 2007

    I came across this great post on getfitsource.com about how research points at the link between exercise and the mind. The more fit you are, the fitter your mind is. That gives you one more reason to abandon your sedentary life and watch less T.V.Exercise actually stimulates the growth of new nerve cells, something that wasn’t known before. Exercise boosts production of chemicals like brain-derived neurotrophic factor or BDNF: this chemical makes you have more knowledge acquisition ability.

    Read this Newsweek article: Stronger,Faster,Smarter

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